So, you have discerned that you are called to married life. Now what?

So, you have discerned that you are called to married life. Now what?
In a previous article, I made the point that women need to respect men for who they are and not wait until they “earn it”. A question posed to me in reply is a good one and worthy of consideration. How do you respect a man who, by his own actions, or serious omissions, has lost your respect, or worse, earned your disrespect?
Well, that seems to be the prevalent attitude these days. Men let you down. They only want one thing.